Too Much of a Good Thing…

On August 9, 2009, in Uncategorized, by drneilcannon1


Imagine a woman who is constantly aroused for no apparent reason.  Imagine she is unable to control when and where she has orgasms.  Imagine that even orgasm doesn’t bring resolution to her heightened state of arousal.  On the surface it sounds great, but it is generally very problematic for those concerned.  The term for this condition is Persistent Sexual Arousal Syndrome (PSAS).  Many women who have this condition don’t know what it is, don’t know where to turn, and feel ashamed because of it.  If you are in this situation here is a resource for you:

Overcoming Sexual Shame…

On February 1, 2009, in Uncategorized, by drneilcannon1

Guilt is feeling bad for what we did, i.e., “I had unprotected sex.”  Shame is feeling bad for who we are, i.e., “I’m a slut.”  Shame is that inner voice that says, “I’m not good enough.”  For many people shame becomes the core belief of who we are and eats away at the deepest part of our soul.  The roots of shame are often found in childhood events, a rigid religious upbringing, or traumatic events like rape.  For people who have been abused or traumatized there are often feelings of self blame, i.e., “It’s my fault.  I’m no good or I wouldn’t have been treated so badly.”  There is no cookie cutter formula for treating shame but overcoming it is possible and life changing.  If you feel bad about who you are, today might be a good day to start the healing process.  There is always hope, potential and possibility.  Sometimes we just need a little help to see the bright light shining at the end of the tunnel.

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