Sex Tax…

  If Indiana Congressman, Steve Buyer, gets his way — sex could be the next thing to get taxed.  Apparently during discussions for the new health care bill, Buyer suggested a sin tax by way of higher health care premiums for those who engage in risky behavior, including unprotected sex.  (I don’t believe he included … Read more

A Sexual Wake-Up Call…

Everyone has heard of the 7 year itch.  In clinical terms there are actually three stages of a relationship that are at higher levels of risk for divorce.  Years 7, 15 and 25.  During those times it is easy to focus on the problems.  I like the approach that my colleague Tammy Nelson (seen right) … Read more

There is a Buzz in Bedrooms Across the Nation…

  Indian University (IU) reports that approximately half of both men and women use vibrators during sex.  This is the first meaningful vibrator study ever conducted on thousands of people between the ages of 18 to 60.  The researchers found that vibrators were helpful to overcome sexual dysfunction as well as to enhance pleasure.  Much … Read more

The Sex & Intimacy Show Gets Bounced from Prime Time…

Remember the song “I’m Too Sexy”? You know the one, “I’m too sexy for my shirt, too sexy for my shirt, so sexy it hurts”… Well, I never thought I’d say these words, but it’s official. I truly understand the burden of being too sexy…TOO SEXY FOR PRIMETIME, that is! We had our inaugural show … Read more

Pope on Pleasure…

The guest this week on the Sex & Intimacy Show is Ellie Pope. We will be talking with the delightful Ellie Pope about how to have more pleasure in your life. Who doesn’t want more of that? We hope you will join us for our inaugural show Sunday, July 5th at 5PM Mountain Time and … Read more

I’m in Canada speaking tonight. Many people ask what it means when I say that my life mission is to help make the world a more sex positive place and here’s but one example. Cross culturally the differences between Canada and my beloved America are vast. The former Prime Minister of Canada, Pierre Trudeau said, “The government … Read more

Kelloggs dumps Michael Phelps…

Olympic star Michael Phelps was dumped by Kelloggs Corn Flakes this week for smoking pot.  Interestingly, Kelloggs has a long history of rigidity.  Dr. John Harvey Kellogg originally created corn flakes as a health food back in 1906.  Kellogg was an influential author and proponent of health and nutrition.  Unfortunately, Dr. Kellogg also believed that … Read more

Sadomasochists are no different than Ma & Pa Kettle…

  I had a record number of visits to my blog yesterday when I wrote about spanking. Since there was so much interest in the topic it seems that one good spanking deserves another.  There were four recent scientific studies conducted on the mental health of BDSM practitioners.  Each study found no evidence of psychopathology and there … Read more

A spanking good time…

I had a client last week who loves to be spanked as foreplay.  Her husband is reluctant.  He wants to know why she wants to be spanked and is it normal.  The first thing we need to do is forget about why.  We don’t know why and it’s not important.  What is important is what … Read more