I wish this post was about Iraq or North Korea however unfortunately we are talking about California, the largest state in this great nation. Merriam-Webster’s 10th edition contains the term and definition for “oral sex” (oral stimulation of the genitals). This past week, one parent in Riverside, California complained to the school district and … Read more
If I had a condom for each time somebody told me their sexual activity is down during the holidays, we could reduce unwanted teen pregnancies by 50%. If you want be among the group who has a December filled with romance, it starts with intention. For 10 sure fire tips on how to get … Read more
Over the years I’ve had wonderful therapists and I’ve had awful therapists. Most of my colleagues range from good to gifted. Unfortunately, I also come across therapists that I wouldn’t let pet my cat, let alone work with one of my friends. There is not a week that goes by that I am not … Read more
Tonight’s guest on The Sex & Intimacy Show is Dr. Michael Bader the author of “Male Sexuality.” This is going to be a great show and I hope you will join us. Kim Cattrall, star of Sex and the City says of Michael Bader “reminds us that understanding erotic life is the best cure for … Read more
Tonight on The Sex & Intimacy Show our special guest is Lorae. Like Tiger and Elvis, Lorae is so hot she only needs a one word name! Lorae is a sacred-sexuality educator who coaches men to be “enlightened lovers.” Her method mixes ancient practices like Tantra and Taoism with the latest western medical and scientific … Read more
Letterman or Leno? Despite the side splitting humor of Leno’s “Jay-Walking” segment, I’m a Dave guy all the way! David Letterman on “The Top 10 Reasons Golf is Better Than Sex.” #10…A below par performance is considered damn good. #9…You can stop in the middle and have a cheeseburger and a couple of beers. #8…It’s … Read more
Everyone has heard of the 7 year itch. In clinical terms there are actually three stages of a relationship that are at higher levels of risk for divorce. Years 7, 15 and 25. During those times it is easy to focus on the problems. I like the approach that my colleague Tammy Nelson (seen right) … Read more
Remember the song “I’m Too Sexy”? You know the one, “I’m too sexy for my shirt, too sexy for my shirt, so sexy it hurts”… Well, I never thought I’d say these words, but it’s official. I truly understand the burden of being too sexy…TOO SEXY FOR PRIMETIME, that is! We had our inaugural show … Read more
I remember standing in the kitchen during the holidays when I was a little boy while three generations of Cannon women were cooking Christmas dinner. I recall asking my mom why she was cutting off the ends off the roast before placing it in the oven. She lovingly told me it was part … Read more
I had a woman in my office recently who is in a new relationship. She is attracted to the woman she is dating however the more intimate they become, the more concerns she has about their sexual compatibility. As a strength based couples counselor I tell my clients at the first session that I will … Read more
