The key to enhancing sex and intimacy during the holidays are twofold. The first step is to create the intention to bring the joy of the season into the bedroom. A little mistletoe on the top of the headboard can act as a loving reminder. The second step is to identify holiday landmines and create a plan to minimize them. The most common holiday stressors for couples are money, family, over-indulgence and over-committing. So if you want to have better sex with Mr. or Mrs. Clause, avoid stepping in the reindeer dung by having a conversation with your partner about what would make this holiday season special and sexy for both of you. www.doctorcannon.com