Many men experience early ejaculation and it is hardly surprising when we think about it. We are a time sensitive culture that wants instant gratification, fast food, and movies on demand. Men that talk fast and eat fast, often come fast as well. Being quick and efficient may be the very strength that makes you effective at work however it may not be getting you what you want in bed. Coming more quickly than the man or his partner wants can be the cause of fear, anxiety and shame. The great news is that early ejaculation is easily treatable. To find a certified sex therapist in your area simply go the Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists at www.aasect.org.