Change is the top word for 2009. A Google search for “change” produces over one billion results. In the spirit of change, here are three ways to improve your sex life over the next 12 months. 1) Make your relationship a priority. It’s easy to forget about each other when we are caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life. Sometimes we simply have to put pleasure first. 2) Be strategic about sex. Many couples think sex has to be spontaneous because that’s how it is in the movies. In real life it doesn’t work that way for most people. We make plans to golf, shop, ski and take the kids to soccer. Start making plans to be sexual and I guarantee you’ll have more sex. 3) Try something new. Trade comfort for tension. Every couple has a sexual pattern. Figure out what yours’ is. This is a great exercise for couples that in and of itself can lead to better sex. Once you have figured out your sexual pattern, co-create hot new experiences that are outside the box (no pun intended).
Change starts with desire. I wish for each of you to create the changes you want so you can live the sexy life you deserve. www.doctorcannon.com
